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Choices.... Ramblings of a Mad Man...

Been consoling a friend and her struggles with her relationship. Recently engaged, now, I've been trying to be supportive as a friend. My thoughts and opinions always come off very strong and charged, but I do try to temper them.

This is the second friend in the last few months, that I have agreed to terminate our friendship should their romantic partner not feel comfortable. Both friendships are quite significant to me for a variety of reasons, and I don't take the decisions lightly, but I think the ability to find someone to your partner is more important than a friendship.

I have a few friends that will kill me for saying this, but their happiness will always be more important than mine....

So yet again, I feel my circle of close friends continue to shrink.. Maybe, truly this is the reason why male and female friendships are destined to end at some point. I know the above scenario isn't the status-quo, but I also understand my decision to make it easier for others is equally (or more important).

My friend K asked me to her small wedding in Sept. After her and partner visited me this evening as I was working, she left me a voicemail asking me to be emceee at her wedding. I have responded, and as a small party, this should be pretty interesting. As my Chinese isn't very good, I'll need to work on this part quite a bit...

Was struggling a bit this weekend when I was trying to take time off in August to visit a friend. Not even sure I will be able to get the time off anymore. I really do need a break, and some time for reflection... I'm having a hard time keeping up. I am going to be very interested to see what transpires.


Aug. 2nd, 2012 01:01 am (UTC)
Really not that hard to put it on FB...

If you want to charge admission .. EventBrite is pretty easy to use...

We'll do something after the 21st .. Not sure about the 18th just yet... Was planning to run away (for a week or so) .. but may delay that until Sept.